It's Not Fair 30

It's Not Fair 30

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This story is set in the Puericil Universe.

See chapter 1 for an explanation about this series. This is another selection of letters from the "It’s Not Fair!" letter column, in "Boy Stuff" magazine. In them, boys complain about how little privacy they are allowed, and about the double standard that makes it OK for people to see them naked but protects girls’ modesty. The intention of this article is illustrating the attitude changes that the Conservative Resurgence has brought about: children, particularly male children, are firmly controlled by adult authority figures, who often make a point of emphasizing that control, in order to keep boys in their place and out of trouble.

Please feel free to contribute any similar letters if you wish to, and I’ll be happy to write the magazine’s response and the psychologist's comments. Thanks to the contributors for this issue!

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Letter published in the It’s Not Fair section of the magazine called Boy Stuff:
(this letter has been written by Tom The response is by Cassie)

Richard (age 16)

Dear It's Not Fair:

I live with my mother and my younger brother (age 10). My dad left awhile ago. While I love my family, my mom continues to insist on making my brother and I share a bath together. Mom insists on washing us. I have told her that I'm too old to be bathed with my brother. If we have male friends sleeping over my mom would insist on bathing them with us which is why I try not to have friends sleep over.

My aunt is even worse; she also bathes us together, but it’s incredible how much time she spends washing us down there. However, I don't see her a whole lot.

Aside from the bathing, my mom treats me like a 16 year old. When she's away with work which is often, she lets my brother and I stay home alone. When we're home alone, I usually have a shower by myself though there's been times my mom has come home while I was in the shower and walked into the bathroom despite the fact I've told her that I'm having a shower!

I have heard of the Conservative Resurgence, but I didn't think my mom believed in it. When my brother and I misbehave, we don't get spanked. I don't take Puericil and I've got normal hair down there. But I have heard that people who believe in the Conservative Resurgence bathe their sons so I'm worried that my mom and my aunt are considering following it. However, I'm scared that if I mention it, they might take things to the next level. It's not fair!

The magazine published response:

Dear Richard,

The truth is that, labels aside, each person is an individual, and they don’t all act in the same way. The Conservative Resurgence is a social movement involving the return to a more traditional and strict style of parenting, among other things. Many parents have realized that boys, particularly teen boys, were getting out of control, not making an effort at school and behaving like juvenile delinquents. These parents understand that boys mature very slowly, and that they need parents and other authority figures to take control of them and guide them.

Not all parents who believe this treat their sons necessarily the same, however. Parents are all different, and boys are all different too. Your mother and aunt are adults, while you are a little boy. Yes, I know that you are 16, but because of how slow boys mature, at your age you are still at a very immature stage from an emotional point of view. Therefore, your mom and aunt need to make decisions for you and your brother. They are the ones how have much more knowledge and maturity than you, and they love you and want the best for you. They also know you better than anyone. If they don’t spank you it’s because they considers you can be guided and disciplined in an effective manner without spanking. On the other hand, if they bathe you guys it’s because they consider that you can’t be trusted to take care of your hygiene without close supervision. In both cases, it’s their decision, not yours.

Do you feel childish when you are naked with your little brother in the tub, while your mom or your aunt bathes you? Well, they know better, and they are just making sure that you are properly clean. You should feel thankful that they take the time to do so!

You should not be worried or embarrassed about it. Teenager or not, you are not much different from your 10 year old brother in terms of maturity. There’s absolutely no reason your mother or any other responsible authority figure shouldn’t bathe you or see you naked. You have to understand that for an adult seeing you naked or washing your little peenie is the same as seeing a naked toddler. It has no importance whatsoever. No one cares, except possibly you because of childish false modesty.

My advice is not to worry about that. There’s really no reason for you not to have your friends over. It’s silly to let that false boyish modesty spoil your fun with your friends. You only need to worry about being a good boy and doing everything your mom and aunt tell you to do. You do not need to worry about how they raise you. That’s their job and their decision, not yours!

Letter published in the It’s Not Fair section of the magazine called Boy Stuff:
(this letter has been written by Steve. The response is by Cassie)

Steve (age 18)

Dear It's Not Fair:

I have not written to you since the start of the last school year, but I am feeling very disturbed again at recent turns of events, and I felt the need to correspond with someone. You know me well, very well in fact. You know my history and you have seen photos of me, some very embarrassing, and I am about to discuss some further embarrassment that happened that concerns you. I hope you are not tired of me and do not think less of me because of this further embarrassment you know about and I will discuss below.

I had a really successful last school year, with excellent grades. My parents were proud of me, but as you can see by what I am about to tell you, they give Ellen more of the credit for my success than me. When I tell you what is happening now, you will understand how my parents just worship Ellen and give her absolutely free rein with me.

During the summer, Ellen and I both had birthdays, so I am now 18 and Ellen is now 15. I thought I was finally going to be free of a babysitter and be able to do things other 18 year olds do, but then my world came crashing down on me again. 18 has traditionally been what is called the "age of majority" in my state, when people are considered to be adults. However, as an addendum to the conservative resurgence laws in our state, our state legislature passed a bill in its last session that said that any boys who are on puericil are not considered to have reached the age of majority and become an adult until 21 years of age. Not only can I not do adult things like voting, driving, and buying cigarettes (not that I would buy cigarettes anyway since I don't smoke), but I am still considered to be a child. There is an exception to this law that I qualify for, but may parents refuse to allow me to take advantage of it. That exception says that a boy who is still in school and has a grade point average above a certain high level may be considered an adult at 18 with parents' approval. I have a very good grade point average above the statutory level, but my parents refuse to allow me to take advantage of this exception. They point out that I am still in classes with boys and girls 3 years younger than me, and I am at least 2 years behind in school. Also, they point out that my good grades are due to the close and strict babysitting I get from Ellen, who makes me do my homework every day whether I want to or not. They point out that I still give Ellen a hard time sometimes about doing my homework and her babysitting, and that I still receive "attitude" spankings from her. How would you feel if you were being bossed around all the time by a girl who is 3 years younger than you and treats you like a baby? You wouldn't like it either. Thus, I am now in a new school year and none of the rules have changed at all. I am still being caned at school on a naked tushie, and if I am in class and not in swim session, I get caned in front of all the girls and boys in the class, and I am the only boy who gets caned on the naked tushie in class. Of course, any of the boys can get it bare in swim class, but there are only other boys there to see it when Ms. Chavez canes any of us. Then, of course, when I get home and finish my homework, Ellen still bathes me with the bathroom door wide open, and if I got caned at school, she leads me downstairs naked by the ear after my bath and I get another spanking with the paddle and caning from Ellen in the living room, and then the same 30 minutes of naked crying corner time with my hands behind my head. Then, right after my bath or my corner time if I get a spanking, Ellen dresses me in my horrid cartoon pajamas, the short ones in warm weather and the footie long sleeve pajamas in cold weather. Both are horribly embarrassing, since many people see me in them.

If all of this is not bad enough, let me tell you what makes it even worse. My first younger sister Cindy became 16 years old this year. Under the laws of our state, girls at the age of 16 can get a driver license, and having taken driver's ed at school, Cindy got her license. My parents bought her a used car, so she is now mobile. Cindy will often take me, my other younger sister Bonnie, and Ellen out, often to get food. It is hugely embarrassing to be driven around by my younger sister, since I cannot even take driver's ed myself and get a license until I am 21, but if we go out after I have had my bath, Ellen makes me go in my cartoon pajamas, whether we are just going through a drive through, or even worse, when we are going in to a fast food restaurant. I cannot tell you how many of my fellow classmates, both boys and girls, have seen me in my skimpy cartoon pajamas, or even worse my footie pajamas. It is so embarrassing!!!

By the way, I almost didn't write this letter, because if it was not bad enough that you have seen all of those embarrassing photos of me during my trip with the Scotts to the beach holiday, it is now even worse. Ellen's older sister, Anne Marie, the one who took those photos, was home and present during one of my recent "attitude" spankings from Ellen, and instead of photographing it, she made a video, complete with sound. I was shown the video afterward, and I understand that it was provided to you as well. Thus, you saw every spank of the paddle, every stroke of the cane. saw my kicking legs and my red naked tushie wiggling helplessly over Ellen's lap. trying without success to avoid those stinging spanks from the paddle, and my tearful face and loud crying, both during the spanking and caning and during the corner time afterward. I certainly hope you don't think less of me because you saw a big boy acting like such a baby during a spanking. I can't help it. It hurts like blazes! As you got to see, Ellen spanks really hard.

Please tell me you agree with me that at 18, my days with a babysitter should be over, and that due to my really good grades I should be considered to be an adult. I hope you will agree, because there is no doubt in my mind that IT'S NOT FAIR.

The magazine published response:

Dear Steve

I’m very glad to hear from you. Even though Ellen has kept me updated on your progress it’s still a pleasure to talk to you directly. You know you can always write and I’ll be happy to listen to your worries and advise you. I’m never tired of listening to you! Quite the opposite.

You need to understand something: Of course I do not think any less of you because of what you are telling me! One thing that I wish you would get over is your shyness and false boyish modesty. Yes, I have seen photos of you, but they are not embarrassing at all, even the ones when you are naked and getting spanked. It’s very natural for a little boy to be naked in front of grownups (and in terms of maturity Ellen, unlike you, is a grownup), and to get spanked when he is naughty. It’s not something you need to be embarrassed about. It’s not really your fault that at 18 you are still getting bathed by a girl 3 years younger than you who is your babysitter, or that she still spanks you frequently on your naked tushie. Your lack of maturity is caused by a biological fact: boys mature much slower than girls. It makes no more sense for you to be embarrassed about that than about having two legs and two arms. It’s just a biological fact of life! You are a gentle and bright boy, and you should feel proud of yourself instead of always rebelling against and being mortified by the fact that you need adult supervision.

I want to congratulate you on your accomplishments at school. You always seem to think that your parents give Ellen most of the credit, but from speaking with them I do not think that’s the case. They are very proud of you. At the same time, they are very thankful to Ellen. You should realize that those things are not incompatible at all. You are not on your own. What you have achieved, you have achieved as part of a team. You have studied and done your homework. You have worked hard and are intelligent enough to get those good results. Ellen has supervised and motivated you. She has punished you when you did not meet the standards she sets for you, the standards she knows you are capable of. The success is both yours and hers, and acknowledging the importance of her contribution does not make your accomplishments any less. Be honest with yourself, Steve: would you have achieved the same results without her? Remember how badly you were doing at school, and how she turned it around. Sure, your tushie was red a lot of the time, but in hindsight, don’t you see how much good it did to you? Now you are in an excellent position to finish your studies and go to the university in a few years and, later, to get a good job and have a good and successful life. Isn’t that worth a few childish punishments you obviously needed and deserved?

It’s true that you are not an adult, since you are only 18 and the age of majority for boys on Puericil in your state is 21. You are still a child from a legal point of view, but more importantly, you are still a child in terms of maturity. The fact that you still give Ellen bad attitude clearly shows that. Being an adult is much more than just a matter of reaching a magic age.

That’s why your parents do not grant you adult status. Would it make sense for a boy to vote, drive and be allowed to buy cigarettes (which you very rightly do not use anyway, among other things thanks to the supervision given by Ellen), when he still gives his carers bad attitude? When he still needs a younger girl to babysit him? When he doesn’t always want to do his homework and needs his babysitter to make him? When he still needs to be caned on his bare tushie in front of all the boys and girls in his class, even though none of the other boys needs to get it that way? When he still can’t be trusted to bathe himself and needs his babysitter, a girl 3 years younger than him, to bathe him? When, even though he is 18, he still gets bathed with the bathroom door wide open for anyone to enter and see him? Because, if he behaves like a little boy, is it any wonder that he gets treated like a little boy? A boy who still needs his school canings to be followed up at home, right in the living room so that everyone can see what a naughty boy he has been? Who, no matter that he is 18, still cries like a little baby when he gets spanked in the living room, in front of all the family and any visitors who might be there? Is that how someone who wants to be considered an adult acts? Do you still think that you should be considered an adult when you are naked in the corner right there in the living room, with your hands behind your head, and everyone is seeing your red tushie and listening to your crying?

I’m not asking these questions to be mean, but to make you think and realize that you are still far from being an adult. You are just too immature for that.

Do you feel like an adult when your babysitter dresses you in cartoon pajamas and everybody sees you in them? Yes, remember that this babysitter who strips you naked, washes and bathes you, spanks you and dresses you in your infantile pajamas is a girl. Not even a girl your age, but three years younger than you. Can it get any more childish than that? Why do you then insist on acting as if you were almost an adult?

It’s no wonder Ellen bosses you around and treats you like a baby, because often you act like a baby, particularly when you act all rebellious and give her bad attitude despite everything she has done for you. You need to mature and act more grown up, and that starts with getting rid of that bad attitude and being sincerely thankful to Ellen, and showing her the respect she deserves.

And then you are worried that I may think any less of you because Ellen’s sister sent me the video of one of your spankings. Yes, I have that video, and let me tell you: I do not think any less of you because you get spanked. That’s natural, something that happens to boys when they misbehave, and it’s not important or cause for me to think badly of you. You cry and bawl because it hurts, and that’s what little boys do when they are hurting. There’s no shame in that. Anne Marie really is an excellent camerawoman, just like she is an excellent photographer. In the video, she captures how sorry you look and how you open your mouth and look at the camera while taking in gulps of air to continue bawling, or how the tears rolls down your cheeks, or how you squirm and move your tushie trying to get it away from the paddle or cane, always unsuccessful, because Ellen really knows how to spank a naughty boy, even one who is 18, three full years older than her. But as we have said, it’s not age but maturity that matters and, even she is younger than you, in terms of maturity you are not even in the same scale. Can you imagine her being spanked? The thought is completely absurd, isn’t it? Not so in your case, as the video clearly shows. You kick your legs as if you were trying to swim away from Ellen’s lap, but she doesn’t miss a beat as she lights a metaphorical fire on your naked tushie. Then look at how she takes you to the corner and places you there, with your hands behind your head, your bright red tushie on show in front of everybody, while you bawl like a boy half your age. Can there be any doubt of who acts like an adult and who doesn’t, among you two?

It is no wonder then that your little sister is mature enough to get her driving license while you are not, and that she has to drive you everywhere. That’s the way it happens because you are still a child and she is not, even if you are 18 and she is 16.

I do not say all this because I want to embarrass you. In fact, you should not be embarrassed. It’s not your fault, but a fact of life that you are so slow to mature. It doesn’t really matter that Ellen makes you go in your cartoon pajamas to the drive through or to the fast food restaurant. You should stop being so concerned that your classmates have seen you in your cartoon pajamas, even the footie ones. Don’t your classmates, both the boys and the girls, also see you naked in class, bawling as you get your tushie caned for being naughty? So why should you be embarrassed about your pyjamas? You did not even choose them, anyway.

Steve, you should listen to what the people in your life who love you and have authority over you are telling you: You may be 18, but you still have the maturity of a child, and that’s why you are treated like a child. You should not be embarrassed of that, and you should not give Ellen bad attitude. The only thing you should be embarrassed of is not doing your best to obey and respect your elders, who only want the best for you. I hope you’ll reflect and realize that only by overcoming that negative attitude you can mature and become a young man instead of a child.

I’m sorry if I have seemed harsh in this letter, but I care too much about you not to tell you things that you need to know and think about. I have to tell you that you are a bright boy, worthy of all this effort, and that I’m proud of what you are accomplishing, just like your parents and Ellen are also proud of you, even if she still needs to discipline you. Do not be embarrassed, but instead accept the treatment that corresponds to your maturity level, and try to improve your attitude. That’s the way to make people see that you are growing.

A big hug to you and keep doing your best at school and trying to control any sign of negative attitude!

(The End)