It's Not Fair - Tiffany's Letter
By Wanderer159
and Red Rover
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Copyright 2017 by Wanderer159 and Red Rover, all rights reserved
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From Tiffany, 12
How old should a girl be to be able to
bathe herself? I am a 12-year-old girl and my parents don't let me
bathe myself
(and never did). I also have a younger brother (8 years old) who is
being
bathed with me. Either one of my parents bathe us and it's so
embarrassing.
They even bathe my/our upper part and lower parts. My brother teases me
that he
can see me naked and asks questions about my body which my parents
freely
answer. When I tease my brother that I could see him naked and ask
questions
about his body that my parents freely answers, he doesn't care! I keep
telling
my parents about how embarrassing this is for me now that I'm old
enough to
bathe myself but they laugh like I have said the funniest thing and say
I am
not old enough to be trusted in the tub, and neither is brother, for a
long
time. They even let my brother help bathe me including my boobies, my
heiney hole
and my flower. It's especially embarrassing how they comment that my
boobies
are now growing and each one of them gets to bathe them, even my dad,
especially even my little brother. I once got into an argument with my
parents about
this and they took off my pants and panties, put me over their knees
and
spanked me. First my dad and then my mom.
Just see what happened recently, a few
days
ago: It was 9 PM and as usual, my mother has called us (my brother and
me) to
get undressed and go to the bathroom, for which my mom was already
filling with
water. I didn't obey. Then I hear my mom yell "TIFFANY, WHERE ARE YOU?!
GET IN THE BATHROOM NOW!". I got scared (as I take Puericil-G and don't
have a lot of will-power to resist) and went there. When I got there,
my
brother (Paul) was already naked and in the tub. My mom was furious.
She said
"Young lady, why aren't you obeying me? When I tell you to take off
your
clothes and come here for your bath, you need to do so immediately!". I
try to tell her firmly that I can bathe myself but it comes out weakly.
She
calls our dad who has just come back from work and they scold me, very
sternly.
Then they come up to me and surround me, and undress me like I was a
doll. They
do so while explaining to me that I am not old enough and that I don't
have a
right to be in the tub alone. Then they put me over my dad's knee and
both
spank me for a few minutes. Even though they only spanked me for a few
minutes,
I was crying like a baby. I saw my brother grinning when he saw that
while
sitting in the tub. Then they put me in the tub and bathe me. They wash
my hair
first so I close my eyes so that the soap won't go inside them. My
brother
feels my body, including my boobies (they are barely there since they
have
begun growing fairly recently after I got my period). I can't see
anything and
I complain to my mom who is bathing me but she just says "Paul, don't
touch your sister while I'm bathing her". That's it?! No nothing. He
gets
to touch me anywhere including my boobies and that's all he gets?! She
then
rinses my hair and then washes my upper body, including my boobies, my
arms, my
tummy, my legs. Then she has me sit down and spread my legs while she
washes me
"down there". They have even allowed Paul to help with that, telling
him how to bathe a girl. I can bathe his peepee and balls too but it
doesn't
bother him like him bathing me down there. She finishes bathing me when
I turn
around and she washes the back of all my body and my heienehole and
rinses my
whole body. Then she washes Paul. Paul is too young to be embarrassed
at this,
but not me.
They said I will be bathed until I move
out
of their place to my own place. But that's not until I get a job which
I need
to be in the age of majority. For both boys and girls, the age of
majority is
21 years old, here in this city. So since I have to be at least 21
years old
AND have my own place, I can be still bathed after I turn 21. Some
girls I've
known are OLDER than 21 and they still get bathed by their parents
because they
live at home, can't move out and take Puericil-G. My parents tell me
not to
feel bad because of my young age, but I don't care; I just don't want
people
seeing me naked!
What's more is Paul takes pictures of
me
including close-up and whole pictures of my boobies, my heiney hole and
my
pussy being washed by my parents and hides them from me in his camera.
Then he
shows them to all his boy friends who don't have sisters to watch being
bathed.
They all tease me that they can see me naked in every part of my body
and
there's nothing I can do.
I'm 12 years old and I am just
mortified my
mom and my dad bathe me everywhere including my private parts and my
boobies
and Paul helps out. My body is changing as they have explained to Paul
about
adolescent and teenage girls' bodies becoming woman's bodies and they
can see
everything. My friends, my age, older and younger than me, including
some girls
in their late teens, also have their parents bathe them and they're
mortified
too. This shouldn't happen to girls.
IT'S NOT FAIR!
Dr. Baker responds:
Hello, Tiffany,
I would agree that a 12 year old girl
should be mature enough to bathe herself, but your parents
don’t seem to agree
with you. But you are on Puericil-G which makes a big difference. Many
people
don’t realize that being on one of the Puericil-type
medications tends to make
the child less mature in many respects including personal cleanliness.
This is
true of boys as well as girls. One of my patient’s families
includes a pair of
twins. I’ll call them “Jack” and
“Jill.” They are 17 years old and in the 10th
grade. Their parents bathe them the same way your parents bathe you and
your
brother – in the tub together. Jack is on Puericil-Max and
Jill is on
Puericil-G. They are very immature for their age and are 2 years behind
in
their school grade level because of it. Looking at them,
you’d think they were
14 or younger. Jack and Jill still have baby-sitters, some of whom are
younger
than they are. Their baby-sitters bathe them and spank their bare
bottoms as
needed.
As for your little brothers seeing you
naked and learning about your body parts, that is really normal and
healthy. Children
need to be familiar with the opposite sex so they learn the proper
names for
things and don’t grow up confused about sexual matters. You
say your parents
let you touch Paul’s body and ask questions about it, just as
they let Paul
touch you and ask about your body. That seems fair to me.
You say that Paul enjoys watching you
get
spanked on your bare bottom. Do you get to watch him when he gets
spanked? I
usually recommend that children be spanked separately, but your parents
are the
ones to make that decision.
I am not sure I approve of Paul taking
pictures of you naked. That could lead to trouble if the pictures get
onto the
Internet. Make sure your parents control who gets to see those pictures.
Let me know how you are doing and feel
free
to write if you have any more questions or problems.
Sincerely
Paul D. Baker, Ph.D.
Consulting Psychologist
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